1. What makes a quality relationship?
2. Why Thai?
3. Rates and policies
4. Disclaimer and quality efforts

What makes a quality relationship?

In the west, half of all marriages end in divorce, and a large percentage of the rest are not a greatly synergistic relationship between two people.

Love is blind ... at first. Initial feelings usually seem like they will last forever, and are almost religiously powerful feelings. However, this always fades with time. The world is a very happy place, but for only a short while...

What makes a marriage great is shared values & interests, friendship, compatible personalities, and open & honest communications. These grow over time, not fade, if you choose the right partner. The world can be a wonderful place forever.

Too many people go thru dating websites looking mainly at the photos. Most profiles have little substance in the text areas -- people do not think and write much about themselves. Please edit your profile carefully, as many times as you wish.

The mating instinct tricks many people into constantly seeking sexual relations. After all, evolution has made mating the #1 urge over countless generations of "natural selection" -- the people who mated the most left their traits in the next generation, over and over again, whereas the traits of thoughtful people like monks were lost oftentimes. Now, people do a lot of stupid things about sex, including endless chat, taking risks with HIV, wasting time with the wrong kinds of people, and marrying an inappropriate partner which can cause great waste of time.

Do not become a statistic in life. Use our love match service carefully.

"Love" is not "lust" based totally on feeling. Love is good will, a willingness to grow together spiritually in substantial and right ways, synergistically. This begins with choosing the best partner.

Humans can become neurotic if they do not satisfy their natural mating and reproductive needs. However, the best quality of life comes from the best home environments.

We provide Thai "Love" Match dot com to help people find lasting "love".

Why Thai?

Many men have reported the following sentiments and experiences, which reflect the general nature of Thai culture:

Thai ladies are more native feminine, warm and affectionate than their overly domesticated counterparts in western civilization, especially western career women (who often resemble men).

Thai ladies are less "spoiled" materially, and do not push their husbands to make more money to satisfy high materialistic expectations, unlike western ladies with rat race standards imposed by their peers and rich family origins. Thai ladies appreciate the little things and are easily contented.

Thai ladies accept gender home maker roles and are more focussed about sensitive child raising, which is extremely important for the childrens personality development.

Thai ladies do not complain, and instead have nice dispositions, appreciative attitudes and maintain lovely sentiments.

Thai ladies accept their natural gender roles, and do not try to deny mother nature and the facts of life. While they often make the most of their freedoms to develop businesses, they do not deny their femininity or try to become equal to men in all ways. Thai ladies accept their relative strengths and weaknesses, and plug in accordingly.

To understand these differences, it is important to understand some things about Thai culture. It is not purely an economic matter, as other cultures of similar economic rank do not produce ladies so favorable to foreign men. (Note: Only 1% to 2% of Thai ladies ever enter prostitution, so this discussion is about mainstream Thai ladies.)

Many anthropologists assert that to understand a culture, you must understand the language. The Thai language is full of polite "particles",and Thai people are very sensitive to choice of words and phrases.

It is considered barbaric to lose your cool in Thai society, or to be aggressive. You are expected to be thoughtful, to think before you speak,and to charm your way forward.

In contrast, if you selfishly offend another person, you may have a few logical points but your longterm true intentions will be questioned.

To be respected, you should be respectful and thus respectable.

Thais are also Buddhist and significantly less judgemental than people from a Judeo-Christian background. This results in less conflict and more acceptance of differences between people. Thai ladies do not try to change or manipulate their husband, but accept them as they are.

If peace and serenity are something you value in a home environment, then you have come to the right place. However, if you want a hard driving BMW career woman, who must keep up with the Jones, has insatiable credit card and bank account "needs", and believes that the person who dies with the most toys wins, then you have come to the wrong place here.

These are all general differences. Of course, it varies from individual to individual, and your mileage may vary. However, if the above is something you want, then you are much more likely to find it here on Thai Love Match dot com than most other introductory services.

Rates and policies:

All ladies may advertise for free, and your privacy is protected. Contact information will remain confidential.

If a man inquires, he sends his information to ThaiLoveMatch.com and we send it to you. Only ThaiLoveMatch.com knows your email address and other contact information. Only if you are interested in him, too, do you contact him back and send him your email or other contact information.

Men may browse the website for free, but fees apply to contacting ladies. This helps filter serious inquiries only. Each ladys contact information costs $15. We pass the details on to her. The minimum fee is $45, and covers up to 3 contacts.

Men may post their profile and contact information for $22/month or 880 baht, minimum 2 months ($44). The ladies may then contact you directly,and do not need to contact Thai Love Match.

If he wants to get contact information for ladies, then each ladys contact info requested by the man will cost him $15 or 600 baht, and the man must deposit a minimum retainer of $45 for up to three contacts.

The rates for men are subject to change, and the present rates are for a limited time only. This website was started in mid-November 2003, and we expect the rates to increase by New Year. However, payment before any rate increase will result in the above rates being honored.

Disclaimer and quality efforts:

Of course, it is not feasible to verify everyones honesty.All we can do is try to reduce risk and improve quality.

We hereby disclaim any and all responsibility for what may happen as a result of your using this service.

We do not depend on Thai Love Match for our livelihood, but we enjoy providing this good professional service nonetheless!